I know how you feel. *points to ring on left hand* I've been going at a relationship for a long time, too. 29 months tomorrow. Lemme tell ya, my fiance's dad is a twisted, dark, man. My fiance is a rape baby. Her father twisted her siblings and rewards them for lying in court. I have to spend virtually every weekend with this ******* who tries to act like a good guy: fixing the yard; digging trenches, laying pipe for sprinklers; going to places; zoo, out to some random place; and other family occasions. Her dad's whole side of the family is alright with me. Haven't met much of her step-mother's side. Now, her little sister can't stop whining (she's "singing", but it sounds like non-stop whining), lying, being loud, and completely obnoxious (I can't really blame her, she's 10); and her brother is an alright guy.. just most likely gay (not homophobic, not against it, just.. you can sense it, y'know).
I cannot say just how many times I'd've loved to have just punched her dad in the face, yelling about how many times I've slept with his daughter (including in his room) and yelling about how cruel and unusual of a freak he is.. but he's my only ride down to where my girlfriend lives. So I've had to bite my tongue, but I'm with you, man. I'm more or less just the type to not say a damned word to someone when they insult me to my face.. but my friends are who I think are worth going to jail for if someone messes with them.