Thanks for all of your suggestions
Hopefully I find some friends to play with. I started playing multiplayer again today and its been 2 hours again And I've only won one game again....the servers keeps pairing me with ppl below 100 rank and always puts almost all 130 on the opposing teams. And 343i says they've updated join in progress settings in all these recent updates yet I keep getting put in games that are past the half way point and puts me on the losing team, ALWAYS.