Whats my type?.... Hmmm.....Well. I honestly, don't have one. It just doesn't feel right to me, to build this idea of a dream girl in my mind. You can't chose who you fall in love with... it just... happens. And that's the beauty of it. The heart wants what the heart wants, and that's the way it should be! Part of dating is getting to know someone, but if your only looking for a partner that meets your personal "Type" then you are missing out. She could be the perfect match for you, and you guys would fall madly in love and maybe even start a family, but how would you know if you don't give her a chance?! If you just say "Oh, shes a brunette, I only want a blonde. NEXT!" than you could be missing out on the greatest thing to ever happen to you. And the "Happy Family" destiny that fate wrote out for you, fades away. It ceases to exist. In my opinion, I feel it is best to Just keep your mind open, and your heart prepared. Be ready for anything.
Which leads me to my view on Marriage...
I don't have a Wife... And if I did, I would never fight with her. There is no argument that is worth divorcing for to me. Even if she cheated on me, lied to me our entire relationship, or anything like that... It does not matter. I would forgive her. If I make a mistake in our relationship, or say something wrong (Which I would do everything in my power to avoid) I would own up to it, and admit my fault. And apologize. Even if we were in a argument of over how something happened and I was right. I would still apologize. We are equal, and when shes hurting I'm hurting.
She is my wife, I chose her out of all the women in the world for a reason, I fell in love with her in the first place for a reason. I married her for a reason. I chose to share my life with her, for a reason. I love her, for a reason. I chose to share all of myself (my problems and triumphs, sadness and happiness, Darkness and Bliss, Money and Debts) because she is my partner. And she musta felt the same, or else she wouldn't have said "Yes" in the first place... Right?
Relationships take effort. They cannot be forced. It takes 50% from the husband, and 50% from the wife to make the relationship work. If one person gives up working for the relationship and refuses to try anymore, then the relationship no matter how bad the one that wants it to work tries, the relationship is over. Sadly.
If you get married, you have to never quit, never back-down, never turn your back, and never leave your significant others side. No matter how tough it gets. Your partners. You work out your problems, together. You deal with trouble, Together. You embrace whatever happens in your lives, together. You forever, stick together....