Clearly you are very competitive but you did say that you are trying to join a community that just has fun and isn't competitive. I am part of a non-competitive Gaming Community called Chaos. Every night for one hour at 8pm EST we gather to play fun custom games. Each night there is a different theme, such as flood, vehicular, objective, etc. We do have practices for those that are looking to get better or are competitive. There is a sniper team and there are practices that use MLG settings. If you are interested then let me know, my GT: MJ Greatness