JB916 Posted April 22, 2012 Report Share Posted April 22, 2012 Anyone who asks why I posted this in a gaming forum, the answer is "The gaming community is one of the largest". Girls, Do you think she's into me? There's this girl that I like, really like, we're friends. First off, we talk loads, and I mean loads, when we talk we smile at each other and throughout the conversation we look into each others eyes, we don't look away, when I finish talking she'll ask me a question or tell me something interesting, when we first started talking she was always looking down, talking really quick and stuttering on some words, now it's not so much. We both like almost all the same stuff, music games etc. I've made her laugh once or twice, and she's only laughed at me when I've made a complete and utter fool of myself. When I stumbled, she was the only one to laugh, she was giggling to herself for about 20 seconds In addition, if I need anything, like a pen or a pencil or some help, she'll always help with anything I need. Finally when I asked for her number, she was pretty quick to give it to me, and said it so fast I had to half guess some numbers. When I send her messages she usually replies, however sometimes she doesn't (only when I ask how she is/how her holiday is going so far) When I was talking to the girl we had, what I thought was, an awkward silence because I couldn't think of anything else to say to her. It lasted about 40 seconds, when she finally said something the conversation carried on. Are awkard silences are good? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Biggles Posted April 22, 2012 Report Share Posted April 22, 2012 depends, awkward silences can be an excuse for a break and time to think, but don't use them at the wrong time, place them convieniently in a conversation, like, after a joke or sumit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CandiBunni Posted April 22, 2012 Report Share Posted April 22, 2012 I wouldn't say that awkward silences are good or bad. I find that they usually happen when neither person can think up something to say to the other, and so they spend a bit of time either waiting for the other to speak up, or until they finally manage to think of something to break the silence. Usually whenever it happens to me, it's one of those two things: I don't know what to say and am waiting for the other person to speak up, or I'm really shy, nervous, or something like that. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cA_Sil3nt Posted April 22, 2012 Report Share Posted April 22, 2012 It really depends, like the others have said. Me and my girlfriend still have awkward silences, it just happens when you have run out of things to say, which isn't necessarily a bad thing. Also, you need to be the one that ends the silence, you're a guy, and girls love confidence in their men. Good luck with her man! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
italus Posted April 22, 2012 Report Share Posted April 22, 2012 I wouldn't say that awkward silences are good or bad. I find that they usually happen when neither person can think up something to say to the other, and so they spend a bit of time either waiting for the other to speak up, or until they finally manage to think of something to break the silence. Usually whenever it happens to me, it's one of those two things: I don't know what to say and am waiting for the other person to speak up, or I'm really shy, nervous, or something like that. Although that is true most of the times i usually see my friends just speak out of their ass and make the situations boring or they or the female is shy or nervous. JB916 i read that all and it really all depends how long you two have been into each other texting and email whatever you are doing is fine , but a girl likes it better when you are face to face talking so she or you can get a better feel of where things could be going with the conversations and neither of you have to hide behind the text smiles or the nervous (dots ....) after a reply. it also gives the girl a better look at how you act because when a person talks it can tell if they are educated or just making a fool of themselves. make the conversation more interesting don't stay on one topic it will get boring talk about things she likes make her feel that your into or interested in what she does on her free times / wants to do in the future. always keep a spark in a conversation with the person you like. Asking about holidays and how their day is going is normally a short conversation that will make the person feel bored who wants to explain their day haha. make her feel that your a good listener eye contact and responding with full sentences is a MAJOR plus don't give Ok or short answers. i am 19 years old and i am a Male .. and the one thing i know for a fact bro is that if you don't talk to her the way you want too or be shy or nervous what ever the case may be .. another guy will do it for you. so abuse the chances you have! (: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stealth Pilot Posted April 23, 2012 Report Share Posted April 23, 2012 I am going to say she likes you. Just a hunch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drizzy_Dan Posted April 23, 2012 Report Share Posted April 23, 2012 I love that your first post in the forums was about girl advice. Sectacular haha, I hope she likes you dude Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baby Boo Posted April 23, 2012 Report Share Posted April 23, 2012 Awkward silences aren't anything to worry about. I talk to a lot of girls, every time it just happens when neither of you can figure out what to say. I say its still all good Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stealth Pilot Posted April 23, 2012 Report Share Posted April 23, 2012 Drizzy would notice that. Want girl help, try the Bungie.net Flood. They will rip you to pieces. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iɴsɪɢɴɪᴀ Posted April 25, 2012 Report Share Posted April 25, 2012 Take it from me buddy, having been in the same predicament once myself. What you have seems to be special, to both of you and if you do have feelings for each other, make them known sooner rather than later. She may just be waiting for you to make the first move. This sounds exactly what I was like when I was younger and I never made the first move for fear of ruining what we had. As such our friendship became so strong that I was placed into the 'friend zone' and became more like a brother to this girl. Friendships can be fixed, if you make the first move and she doesn't like you like that, you will know where you stand and can always fix the friendship. However, if you leave it too long, you may well be placed into the friend zone, which trust me, is very hard to get out of. The question is, how much do you like this girl and are you willing to take the risk? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PuRe PoNy Posted April 25, 2012 Report Share Posted April 25, 2012 I wouldn't rush in as it sounds to me like she may just consider you a close friend. But she may be into you so be optimistic! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a live dinosaur Posted April 25, 2012 Report Share Posted April 25, 2012 Just always have something to talk about, don't get boring. I always make sure there is something to talk about, weather it is about me, or about her. Silence can be good sometimes, but make sure it isn't constant. Good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azaxx Posted April 26, 2012 Report Share Posted April 26, 2012 I saw this only bungie.net this is where it came from, and the member who posted it there, is a member here who i talk to lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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